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Romance Scam: learn the warning signs of romance scams and what to do if you suspect one.
This is a resource page from Unison’s Elder Abuse Shelter for anyone impacted by romance scams, or simply seeking information about them.
What is Romance Scam?
A romance scam is a form of fraud in which an individual creates a fake identity on dating apps or social media to build trust, emotional connection, and often a perceived relationship with a victim. Over time, the scammer manipulates the person into sending money, sharing personal information, or providing financial assistance under false pretenses, such as emergencies, travel issues, or investment opportunities. This type of scam is especially important to address among older adults, as they may be more vulnerable to social isolation, making emotional connection particularly meaningful. Scammers exploit this vulnerability, and the financial and emotional consequences can be significant. Raising awareness helps older adults recognize warning signs, protect themselves, and maintain safe and meaningful online interactions.
Romance Scams Awareness | Warning Signs Every Older Adult Should Know
This short animated video raises awareness about romance scams targeting older adults. Learn how these scams begin, how they develop, and how to recognize warning signs before emotional or financial harm occurs.
Red Flags | Warning Signs
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Rapid Intimacy: Scammers often profess love quickly- Love bombing
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Avoid Meetings: They frequently claim to be working abroad or military to avoid meeting in person or video calls
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Profile Inconsistencies: Their profiles are either too good to be true or no online presence
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Grammar Errors: Their messages are often poorly written and vague
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Urgent Money Requests: They fabricate an urgent, dramatic emergency needing money immediately such as medical bill, ransom fee, with demands for money increasing in frequency and amount
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Secrecy: They encourage their victims to keep their relationship secret from friends, and family, isolating them.
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In a hurry to get off the site: They will try to quickly get victims to move communicating through email, messenger, or phone.
What to Do Next
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Stop talking to the scammer. Block their number/email
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Report their profile to the app/site
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Report the fraud to authorities:
- Canadian Anti-Fraud Centre
- Local police
- Your bank(s)
- Credit bureaus -
Confide in a trusted friend or family member
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Speak with a therapist, spiritual advisor, or other professional you trust
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Be on the lookout for revictimization
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Unison's Response
Unison’s Elder Abuse Shelter & Outreach team created the Romance Scam book with comprehensive information on how these scams work, key warning signs, and what to do next.
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