Audrey was a socially engaged photographer, a mother of three, one of whom has an intellectual disability, and had friends all across the city. Her husband, Martin, gathered Audrey's children, family, and closest friends this winter to mark the fifth anniversary of Audrey's passing from Alzheimer's disease. The last time I saw Audrey, about seven years ago, she was the same congenial, vibrant woman I always knew. She told me that although she didn't remember who I was, she was aware that I was someone she loved. In her Alzheimer support group, she said they spoke about everything but their disease. Her decline was accompanied by several strokes, and Martin remained by her side until she left this world.
According to the Alzheimer Society, Alzheimer's disease is a chronic neurodegenerative condition that is irreversible, where brain cells are destroyed and the brain visibly shrinks. It is the most common form of dementia, and is not a normal part of aging. The illness presents itself in stages, beginning with forgetfulness, confusion, getting lost, and changes in mood. Alzheimer's deteriorates the memory, beginning with recent events, and eventually, long-term memories. Symptoms can help identify the parts of the brain that the illness is affecting. Behavioural changes, where someone might not be acting like themselves, could be connected to deterioration in the limbic system - the part of the brain that links different lobes of the brain together - or in the frontal lobe. The Alzheimer Society explains the many ways that the brain changes during illness here.
January is Alzheimer awareness month, and the Alzheimer Society would like us all to remember that forgetfulness is not just about aging. Sometimes, it's dementia or Alzheimer's disease. One of the challenges in raising awareness about this illness is the dismissiveness of older adults while they are navigating major changes in their brain. These cognitive changes can mean your loved one becomes repetitive, or is intolerant of activities they once enjoyed. Awareness about Alzheimer's disease helps reduce stigma, and supports caregivers through their loved one's illness. At Unison, we have support groups that provide respite for caregivers in our Adult Day Program.
Whether you wonder if you are experiencing the beginning stages of Alzheimer's, or other forms of dementia, or, if you are a friend or family member who is concerned for someone, reach out for support. Contact the Alzheimer Society of Alberta and Northwest Territories
Tel: (780) 488-2266
Toll-free: 1-866-950-5465 (AB and NWT only)
Fax: (780) 488-3055
Email: info@alzheimer.ab.ca
Web: www.alzheimer.ca/ab
